The Command to Worship Allah Alone and to be Dutiful to One’s Parents

Allah commands us to worship Him alone, with no partner or associate. The word Qada normally having the meaning of decree here means “commanded”. Mujahid said that


(And He has Qada) means enjoined. This is also how Ubayy bin Ka`b, Ibn Mas`ud and Ad-Dahhak bin Muzahim recited the Ayah as:

ยซูˆูŽูˆูŽุตู‘ูŽู‰ ุฑูŽุจู‘ููƒูŽ ุฃูŽู„ู‘ูŽุง ุชูŽุนู’ุจูุฏููˆุง ุฅูู„ู‘ูŽุง ุฅููŠู‘ูŽุงู‡ยป

“And your Lord has Wassa enjoined that you worship none but Him.” The idea of worshipping Allah is connected to the idea of honoring one’s parents. Allah says:

ูˆูŽุจูุงู„ู’ูˆูŽู„ูุฏูŽูŠู’ู†ู ุฅูุญู’ุณูŽุงู†ู‹ุง

(And that you be dutiful to your parents.) Here He commands good treatment of parents, as He says elsewhere:

ุฃูŽู†ู ุงุดู’ูƒูุฑู’ ู„ูู‰ ูˆูŽู„ููˆูŽู„ูุฏูŽูŠู’ูƒูŽ ุฅูู„ูŽู‰ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู’ู…ูŽุตููŠุฑู

(give thanks to Me and to your parents. Unto Me is the final destination) 31:14

ุฅูู…ู‘ูŽุง ูŠูŽุจู’ู„ูุบูŽู†ู‘ูŽ ุนูู†ุฏูŽูƒูŽ ุงู„ู’ูƒูุจูŽุฑูŽ ุฃูŽุญูŽุฏูู‡ูู…ูŽุง ุฃูŽูˆู’ ูƒูู„ุงูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ููŽู„ุงูŽ ุชูŽู‚ูู„ ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุข ุฃููู‘ู

(If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect,) means, do not let them hear anything offensive from you, not even say “Uff!” which is the mildest word of disrespect,

ูˆูŽู„ุงูŽ ุชูŽู†ู’ู‡ูŽุฑู’ู‡ูู…ูŽุง

(and do not reprimand them) means, do not do anything horrible to them.

ูˆูŽู„ุงูŽ ุชูŽู†ู’ู‡ูŽุฑู’ู‡ูู…ูŽุง

(and do not reprimand them) `Ata’ bin Rabah said that it meant, “Do not raise your hand against them.” When Allah forbids speaking and behaving in an obnoxious manner, He commands speaking and behaving in a good manner, so He says:

ูˆูŽู‚ูู„ ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ู‚ูŽูˆู’ู„ุงู‹ ูƒูŽุฑููŠู…ู‹ุง

(but address them in terms of honor.) meaning gently, kindly, politely, and with respect and appreciation.

ูˆูŽุงุฎู’ููุถู’ ู„ูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ุฌูŽู†ูŽุงุญูŽ ุงู„ุฐู‘ูู„ู‘ู ู…ูู†ูŽ ุงู„ุฑู‘ูŽุญู’ู…ูŽุฉู

(And lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy,) means, be humble towards them in your actions.

ูˆูŽู‚ูู„ ุฑู‘ูŽุจู‘ู ุงุฑู’ุญูŽู…ู’ู‡ูู…ูŽุง ูƒูŽู…ูŽุง ุฑูŽุจู‘ูŽูŠูŽุงู†ูู‰ ุตูŽุบููŠุฑู‹ุง

(and say: “My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young.”) means, say this when they grow old and when they die. Ibn `Abbas said: “But then Allah revealed:

ู…ูŽุง ูƒูŽุงู†ูŽ ู„ูู„ู†ู‘ูŽุจูู‰ู‘ู ูˆูŽุงู„ู‘ูŽุฐููŠู†ูŽ ุกูŽุงู…ูŽู†ููˆุงู’ ุฃูŽู† ูŠูŽุณู’ุชูŽุบู’ููุฑููˆุงู’ ู„ูู„ู’ู…ูุดู’ุฑููƒููŠู†ูŽ

(It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allah’s forgiveness for the idolators. ..)” 9:13 There are many Hadiths which speak about honoring one’s parents, such as the Hadith narrated through a number of chains of narration from Anas and others, which states that the Prophet climbed up on the Minbar, and then said, ((Amin, Amin, Amin.)) It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, why did you say Amin” He said:

ยซุฃูŽุชูŽุงู†ููŠ ุฌูุจู’ุฑููŠู„ู ููŽู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽ: ูŠูŽุง ู…ูุญูŽู…ู‘ูŽุฏู ุฑูŽุบูู…ูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ูู ุฑูŽุฌูู„ู ุฐููƒูุฑู’ุชูŽ ุนูู†ู’ุฏูŽู‡ู ููŽู„ูŽู…ู’ู…ููŠุตูŽู„ู‘ู ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ูƒูŽุŒ ู‚ูู„ู’: ุขู…ููŠู†ูŽุŒ ููŽู‚ูู„ู’ุชู: ุขู…ููŠู†ูŽุŒ ุซูู…ู‘ูŽ ู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽ: ุฑูŽุบูู…ูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ูู ุฑูŽุฌูู„ู ุฏูŽุฎูŽู„ูŽ ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ู‡ู ุดูŽู‡ู’ุฑู ุฑูŽู…ูŽุถูŽุงู†ูŽ ุซูู…ู‘ูŽ ุฎูŽุฑูŽุฌูŽ ููŽู„ูŽู…ู’ ูŠูุบู’ููŽุฑู’ ู„ูŽู‡ูุŒ ู‚ูู„ู’: ุขู…ููŠู†ูŽุŒ ููŽู‚ูู„ู’ุชู: ุขู…ููŠู†ูŽุŒ ุซูู…ู‘ูŽ ู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽ: ุฑูŽุบูู…ูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ูู ุฑูŽุฌูู„ู ุฃูŽุฏู’ุฑูŽูƒูŽ ูˆูŽุงู„ูุฏูŽูŠู’ู‡ู ุฃูŽูˆู’ ุฃูŽุญูŽุฏูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ููŽู„ูŽู…ู’ ูŠูุฏู’ุฎูู„ูŽุงู‡ู ุงู„ู’ุฌูŽู†ู‘ูŽุฉูŽุŒ ู‚ูู„ู’: ุขู…ููŠู†ูŽุŒ ููŽู‚ูู„ู’ุชู: ุขู…ููŠู†ยป

(Jibril came to me and said, “O Muhammad, he is doomed who hears you mentioned and does not say Salla upon you.” He said, “Say Amin,” so I said Amin. Then he said, “He is doomed who sees the month of Ramadan come and go, and he has not been forgiven.” He said, “Say Amin,” so I said Amin. Then he said, “He is doomed who grows up and both his parents or one of them are still alive, and they do not cause him to enter Paradise.” He said, “Say Amin,” so I said Amin.)

Another Hadith Imam Ahmad reported from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet said:

ยซุฑูŽุบูู…ูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ููุŒ ุซูู…ู‘ูŽ ุฑูŽุบูู…ูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ูู ุซูู…ู‘ูŽ ุฑูŽุบูู…ูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ูู ุฑูŽุฌูู„ู ุฃูŽุฏู’ุฑูŽูƒูŽ ุฃูŽุญูŽุฏูŽ ุฃูŽุจูŽูˆูŽูŠู’ู‡ู ุฃูŽูˆู’ (ูƒูู„ูŽูŠู’ู‡ูู…ูŽุง) ุนูู†ู’ุฏูŽ ุงู„ู’ูƒูุจูŽุฑู ูˆูŽู„ูŽู…ู’ ูŠูŽุฏู’ุฎูู„ู ุงู„ู’ุฌูŽู†ู‘ูŽุฉยป

(He is doomed, he is doomed, he is doomed, the man whose parents, one or both of them, reach old age while he is alive and he does not enter Paradise.) This version is Sahih although no one recorded it other than Muslim.

Another Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded Mu`awiyah bin Jahimah As-Salami saying that Jahimah came to the Prophet and said: “O Messenger of Allah, I want to go out to fight and I have come to seek your advice.” He said,

ยซููŽู‡ูŽู„ู’ ู„ูŽูƒูŽ ู…ูู†ู’ ุฃูู…ยป

(Do you have a mother) He said, “Yes.” The Prophet said,

ยซููŽุงู„ู’ุฒูŽู…ู’ู‡ูŽุง ููŽุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู’ุฌูŽู†ู‘ูŽุฉูŽ ุนูู†ู’ุฏูŽ ุฑูุฌู’ู„ูŽูŠู’ู‡ูŽุงยป

(Then stay with her, for Paradise is at her feet.) Similar incidents were also recorded by others. This was recorded by An-Nasa’i and Ibn Majah.

Another Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded that Al-Miqdam bin Ma`dikarib said that the Prophet said:

ยซุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‡ูŽ ูŠููˆุตููŠูƒูู…ู’ ุจูุขุจูŽุงุฆููƒูู…ู’ ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‡ูŽ ูŠููˆุตููŠูƒูู…ู’ ุจูุฃูู…ู‘ูŽู‡ูŽุงุชููƒูู…ู’ ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‡ูŽ ูŠููˆุตููŠูƒูู…ู’ ุจูุฃูู…ู‘ูŽู‡ูŽุงุชููƒูู…ู’ ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‡ูŽ ูŠููˆุตููŠูƒูู…ู’ ุจูุฃูู…ู‘ูŽู‡ูŽุงุชููƒูู…ู’ ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‡ูŽ ูŠููˆุตููŠูƒูู…ู’ ุจูุงู„ู’ุฃูŽู‚ู’ุฑูŽุจู ููŽุงู„ู’ุฃูŽู‚ู’ุฑูŽุจยป

(Allah enjoins you concerning your fathers, Allah enjoins you concerning your mothers, Allah enjoins you concerning your mothers, Allah enjoins you concerning your mothers, Allah enjoins you concerning your close relatives then the next in closeness.) This was recorded by Ibn Majah from the Hadith of `Abdullah bin `Ayyash.

Another Hadith

Ahmad recorded that a man from Banu Yarbu` said: “I came to the Prophet while he was talking to the people, and I heard him saying,

ยซูŠูŽุฏู ุงู„ู’ู…ูุนู’ุทููŠ ุงู„ู’ุนูู„ู’ูŠูŽุงุŒ ุฃูู…ู‘ูŽูƒูŽ ูˆูŽุฃูŽุจูŽุงูƒูŽุŒ ูˆูŽุฃูุฎู’ุชูŽูƒูŽ ูˆูŽุฃูŽุฎูŽุงูƒูŽุŒ ุซูู…ู‘ูŽ ุฃูŽุฏู’ู†ูŽุงูƒูŽ ุฃูŽุฏู’ู†ูŽุงูƒยป

(The hand of the one who gives is superior. (Give to) your mother and your father, your sister and your brother, then the closest and next closest.)”

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